Well they should always have memories of the one that passed away. You can cry if you want to. You also got to remember the more you do that the more you are going to make it harder on yourself. It is also makes it hard to do things right when you are always thinking about it. I have had my aunt and my grandma die on me it really sucks when somebody dies that you really cared about. I have also heard that crying and being depressed a lot after a death. It could also hurt your health. I also know that it is hard to lose somebody you love. The best advice I can give you would be to never forget them but just try as hard as you can to not think about it as much. Also go to there grave and visit them. You also can pray to the lord and ask him to watch over them in heaven. Loosing people you really love is really hard I know from experience just do the best you can. You should also go to there funeral and when they ask if any body has got anything to say then that is when you stand up and say a prayer and anything else you want to say so that it will be with that one you loved forever.

Robbie